A letter to my daughter: “From the Promise to the Precipice”
The Rev. Steve Tillett shares a letter with his daughter during this historic season in our nation’s history.
My Sophia,
Soon, you will witness a first-time event in American history, the swearing-in of Kamala Harris, the first woman to be elected Vice President of the United States. The significance of her being an African American woman, and one of Nana’s sorority sisters, might escape you. After all, Barack Obama was president when you were born. Four years later, a woman, former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton, was the favored candidate for president. When you awoke on November 9, 2016, you learned that some things that seem certain do not always happen. When you learned that Mrs. Clinton lost the vote in the Electoral College, you cried. As a result of that experience, you have learned more about the highs and lows of politics than most children might be expected to know. Nevertheless, having people of color and women in positions of power may not seem that momentous to you.
Babygirl, the events of January 6, 2021 have changed everything, and I’m sad to say you may be living in some of the most dangerous days in this country since the Civil War. There is a new word I will introduce to you today. Precipice. In the context of our politics, precipice means “a situation of great peril.” Since the election in November, there has been a nonstop drumbeat of disinformation (lies) about the way the election was conducted and its outcome. Anywhere else in the world, winning an election by over 7 million votes means you are declared the winner. Sadly, because of the Electoral College, not here! That has created room for the lies to take hold and inspired the riot that occurred at the Capitol.
I regret that we, your parents and ancestors, have allowed an atmosphere to take hold in our country that is unworthy of you and your peers, with angry mobs storming the Capitol building threatening to “hang” the vice president, and to harm members of Congress. You are certainly not seeing us at our best and I don’t want you to accept this ugliness as normal. Indeed, this country was founded on the highest written ideals. The Declaration of Independence says, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men (and women) are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights…Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” There were many times in the past 245 years when our country did not live up to those ideals, especially for those of us who are the descendants of stolen Africans. Indeed, these sentiments often remain aspirational (we hope they will become true someday), nevertheless we still choose to believe in the “promise of America.”
After January 6th, our confidence is somewhat shaken, yet we remain determined to, as President Abraham Lincoln said, to remember that “we are not enemies, but friends. We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory, stretching from every battlefield and patriot grave to every living heart and hearthstone all over this broad land, will yet swell the chorus of the union, when again touched, as surely they will be, by the better angels of our nature.”
He gave this speech in 1861 near the beginning of the Civil War. He was reminding us that despite our differences, we are not enemies. While events may have strained our bonds (as Americans) if we choose to work through the hard times and stay together, the “better angels of our nature” will help us find our way out of the darkness to a better place where we are all seen and valued as equals with rights that are respected and protected. I know times are hard, but don’t ever give up. Time does not march backward, always forward! We will try to do our best and then, we pray, your generation will do even better!
Submitted by Rev. Stephen Tillett, Pastor of Asbury Broadneck United Methodist Church in Annapolis, MD, author of Stop Falling for the Okeydoke: How the Lie of “Race” Continues to Undermine Our Country, Political Analyst for The Lavonia Perryman Show (910 AM Superstation, Detroit, iHeart Radio), retired Air Force Chaplain
Thank you Rev. Tillett for sharing.
A very moving witness.
A beautifully encouraging letter. Thank you so so much for the reminder that we are not enemies. Let us move forward together with the mindset to do our best. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks you very much for sharing the "Good News" of Hope, Faith, and Love to our young generation.
A poetic and powerful reminder to All-That though we put hope in the promise we must put actions in order to fully realize the dreams of our ancestors.
A very encouraging letter with one exception: Kamala Harris is not an African American. She is Jamaican-Indian.
A very sweet letter to your daughter Pastor. I did not realize Vice President Harris is African American. Thank you for that information. Blessings.
Thank you Rev. Tillett! This is a profound and beautiful letter to Sophia and all of us! Thank you, Dr. Deborah Haskins
Well done "...Good and faithful servant." Your words are a blessing to us all. Thank you.
Dear “Anonymous”,
Someone born in the United States of African descent (remember the “1 drop rule...one “drop” of “black” blood in the U.S. made you “black”?) is considered African American...no matter where the African heritage might have been shipped between Africa and here.
Thank you for the letter and for the clarifying statment on Karmala Harris. To God be the glory!
I accept whatever blessings God Grants. I applaud your diligence. Shalom